I find that we become reflective as the year draws to a close and we look back.
Friends have passed. So many celebrities were lost this year and even as I write this, another has gone. In my own small world I lost three family members within two months; two people and Mr Spaghetti Legs.
New friends are made. Families welcome new members, babies and pets and life goes on.
There were bad times and good times.
Yet I wonder if our memories are like the photo above, distorted by a heat haze?
Or are they even more warped; not by a heat haze, but as the picture really is: an upside down reflection of my apple tree in the swimming pool!
Our memories are usually distorted by time and selective recall, often painting the past as rosy.
But I don’t think it matters if our memories are factual or not. Whatever they are, each one is now a part of us.
Wishing you all the best for the New Year.
Reflective:
Relating to or characterised by deep thought; thoughtful.
Providing a reflection; capable of reflecting light or other radiation.
Excellent post. May the new year bring more blessings than losses.
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Thank you very much. And I wish the same for you too. 🙂 Have a great 2017. 🙂
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A lovely post to end the year – thank you for it!
And here is to a Happy New Year to you!
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Thank you so much. 🙂
All the best for 2017 to you, Paul, Choppy and Schooner. 🙂
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Oh Zorro!! This made my heart swell!! What an awesome, heartfelt, fantastic writing this is to read!! I wish you all the very very best my sweet friend for the coming new year and many more after!! ❤ ❤ ❤ So touched!! Love it!
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Thank you so much. 🙂
All the very best to you and yours for 2017. 🙂
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The places one finds blessings, such as the world of blogging, its just such a happie surprise for me! Wishing you all the very best my masked friend hehe! ❤
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I agree totally Sparkle. I had no idea I would find so many lovely people here in BlogLand. Keep on posting and being creative. 🙂
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Memories can be indeed mysterious, sometimes real, sometimes from a distant dream, who knows what memories we have and yet to relive them again ! Very thoughtful post, Sci…All the best for a beautiful and great year ahead !!
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Thank you very much Ady. 🙂
Good to hear for you and wishing you a Very Happy New Year. 🙂
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You are right, memories are more of an interpretation than a factual account and are very personal and emotional. We are just a fleeting blip in the circle of life. Happy New Year! 🙂
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Yes, we are just a tiny blip, but still important to those close to us 🙂
Happy New Year to you and yours RRatz. 🙂
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Absolutely! Thanks and have a good one 🙂
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You too. 😀
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Yes indeed, memories are selective, and that changes according to moods.
Happy New Year! 🙂
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Yes, this is true.
Happy New Year Genie, with good health for 2017.:)
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Memories are fluid indeed. As I get older I certainly can feel them “adjusting.” I like what you wrote about that being OK. Indeed…they are a part of each of us and that’s what matters…now. Not how spot-on accurate they actually are. Sorry for your losses in 2016. The best to you and yours in the New Year.
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Thank you very much for your thoughtful comment and condolences. 🙂
Wishing you and yours all the very best for 2017. 🙂
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Happy New Year and I’m old enough to know there is no escaping the bad times with the good, but I hope the new year brings you plenty of good times and laughter and the bad skips a year. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and great photos.
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Thank you very much for your thoughts. I agree there have to be bad times too, which make you all the more appreciative of the good times.
Wishing a very Happy New Year to you and yours 🙂
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each one is now a part of us, so true. Best wishes for 2017!
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Thank you so much Amy. 🙂 Happy New Year to you and yours 🙂
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Happy New Year to you and yours as well, hoping 2017 is a good one 🙂 x
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Thank you very much. Here’s to a great 2017 to you and yours too. 🙂
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May I add (what I hope is) the perfect complement to your post:
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haha This is just perfect! Thank you very much. 🙂 My Mum loved Dean Martin, so I grew up on his songs (and Frank, of course). It may show my age, but I don’t think singers today have the quality of voice and intonation that these golden oldies had.
Happy New Year to you and yours. 🙂
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Liked this post a lot. Wishing you a Happy New Year Sci.
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Thank you so much; I really appreciate it. 🙂 All the very best to you, Hubby, Maggie and family for a great 2017. 🙂
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Happy New Year to you and yours!
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Thank you and Happy New Year to you too 🙂
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I love the pix!
I can say that 2016 was pretty uneventful for me. I wish I could report more, but just like you said, my memories may be distorted.
I want 2017 to have more transitions for me. 🙃
I hope you have a wonderful new year! Give LM a kiss and a scratchy for me!
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Thank you very much 🙂 LM cuddles duly given 😀 And all the best to you and yours for a memorable 2017. 🙂
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Love your post. Made me think too! Good things….think good things of the people we missed and pets too. May 2017 surround you with love and warmth of those whom you love and I hope you will get another dog soon. Cheers to good health, prosperity and joy Sci. 🍷 Enjoy your vodka my dear!😊💗💖💕
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Aw Thank you so much GH – this is like a big Garfield Hug across the miles! 🙂
Cheers to you and Garfield too and all the best for a bright new year 🙂
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