Only dead fish go with the flow.
– Andy Hunt
A little encouragement for those of you who, like me, always seem to be going in the opposite direction to everyone else. Rather that than go belly up!
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One time I particularly remember was arriving at Nottingham train station, where I’d never been before. They were renovating the whole station, so things were all over the place. I had a back pack and small case on wheels. Off I went, carrying my bags up some steep steps and so onto the walkway over the tracks towards the Exit.
As I got up there, suddenly it seemed that the whole of Nottingham was advancing towards me. I soldiered bravely on, following the Exit signs I could see high up at the end of the passageway.
People were bashing into me, How Rude! But I held my ground.
Finally, the mob dissipated and I went down the steps alone. There I was wandering around a platform looking for the exit. A man and boy sitting on a bench waiting for a train had no idea where the exit was either.
Nonplussed, I went back up the stairs (carrying heavy bags) and into the passageway again.
This time, because it was empty, I could see signs stuck all along the walls, directing you to their new Temporary Exit.
In their wisdom, all these signs were placed at waist height; which meant that when the mob thronged through the passage, not one sign was visible.
Eventually, I found my way out to the Temporary Exit, with one novel thought:
Perhaps, sometimes, it is better to go with the flow!
I get lost everywhere, including train stations, and find that the most ordinary events can have a Wonderland-like sheen. But I am definitely a live fish, no floating around for me! Guess it can make life exciting, if frustrating and/or absurd…
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haha Good to hear you are a live fish. 🙂
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A nice provocation. The rebel in me says question everything, but there are other views that encourage compliance…sometimes it is wise.
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haha I also tend to go with the rebel most of the time. I don’t like being one of the crowd!
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👍
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Things I should be more grateful for: not having to lug bags around train stations! I spent a lot of time dragging bags around the Chicago el when I was in college!
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I hear you. You just reminded me of all those Sundays I’d take the slow train back to Manchester – 4 hours to do a journey of 75 mins by car – and then to my freezing attic bedsit!
Those were the days! 😀
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And I really didn’t mind back then, either – I mean, I didn’t like dragging my stuff around and I would have preferred the shorter journey, but I still lugged everything from train to bus to train to bus. If you made me do that today…well, I probably would never go anywhere!
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There’s something to be said for the resilience of youth! 🙂
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Ha ha ha! It hasn’t changed either…my son got lost there the other day – there’s a particular way…known only to longtime residents…😸🚄🚄🚅🚇
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So that’s what’s going on! 🙂
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You are absolutely right . . sometimes! It is rather nice to buck tradition and go it alone. However it can get crowded again when everyone else decides you were right!
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hehe Yes, it happens. 🙂
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British Railways experiences were (for me) usually frustrating at the time, but entertaining much later and would make good short stories. Hmmmm…. I could write quite a few short stories about BR in the 60’s – 80’s! 🙂
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Sounds like an idea for your next book! 🙂
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🙂
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People were bashing into you? How Rude! There are lots of bad people in the world.
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Ah they weren’t really bad, but a crowd does behave differently to someone on their own. 🙂
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Yeah, that’s true…
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I have found that go with the flow is a good idea, sometimes. 🙂
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Yes, it is, but I guess I am just used to doing my own thing. 🙂
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Brave indeed!!☺
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Yes. 🙂
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That many people can’t be wrong, right? 😉
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haha I thought they were! – Actually, I just assumed they were all going for a train and not the Exit. I generally assume I am Right regardless of the mob! But at least I won’t be mistaken for a dead fish!! 😀
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I’m the same, to my occasional chagrin. My favorite part of this story is the height of the signs. 😄
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I know! I was seriously miffed at the time, but afterwards you gotta laugh about it! 🙂
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